The three years I spent with my wife without a job were the worst nightmare of my life - Husband

 A revealing personal account has emerged detailing how a man's marriage deteriorated following his job loss, highlighting the profound impact financial circumstances can have on domestic relationships. The husband shared his painful experience of how his wife's treatment changed dramatically after he lost his stable position with an oil company affiliate.

The man described the emotional toll of his unemployment period, stating, "The three years I spent with my wife without a job were the worst nightmare of my life." This candid admission underscores the profound psychological impact of his wife's changing attitude toward him during their financial struggles.

During their prosperous years, the couple had established a comfortable life together, with the husband building houses in both urban and rural areas, purchasing a vehicle for his wife, and helping her establish a successful business that eventually expanded with multiple branches and employees.

The situation reversed dramatically when the husband lost his job due to company downsizing. He recounted numerous humiliating experiences, including being falsely accused of theft in his own home, enduring condescending treatment from his wife's relatives, and facing constant disrespect that eventually drove him to avoid being home when his wife returned from work.

The marital breakdown reached its peak when their daughter provided her father with a replacement phone, prompting the wife to accuse him of being a "worthless father" who would push his daughter into prostitution. These painful interactions created deep emotional wounds that persisted even after the husband eventually secured new employment.

Now financially stable again with a new position, the husband maintains physical and emotional distance from his wife, acknowledging that bitterness and resentment have permanently damaged their relationship. He is seriously considering divorce to protect his mental health, noting that even phone conversations with his wife can ruin his entire mood.